Chanakya Niti: Always keep these things in mind while giving money to friends & relatives,otherwise there will be bitterness in relationship
- bySudha Saxena
- 06 Oct, 2026
Arya Chanakya wrote a book called Chanakya Niti, in which Chanakya briefly explains the essence of human life. Chanakya says that money is the most powerful thing in this world. Therefore, money should always be used wisely. Your future depends on how you use the money you have. Chanakya says that people work very hard to earn money. However, there come times in life when a very close friend or relative needs financial help. In such times, it is our duty to help another person. However, there are certain things to keep in mind when giving money to someone, otherwise your relationship may become bitter and there is a possibility of discord. Therefore, when giving money to someone, you must be mindful of certain things, Chanakya advised. So, let's find out what Chanakya actually said about this.
Forget about the money – Chanakya says that if you have more money than you need, and you help someone with money, forget about the fact that you gave it to them, because your money will benefit that person, but if they don't return the money, it won't make much difference to you. Don't repeatedly ask such people for money, as this could damage your relationship. So, in such a situation, forget about the fact that you helped them, Chanakya says.
Don't bring money into other fights – Chanakya says that if you help someone with money, but you have a fight with that person for some other reason, then don't repeatedly remind that person about the help you gave or the money you gave, because this can bring bitterness in your relationship.
Remember the date of the transaction – If you have given money to someone, remember when you gave it to him, and when he is going to return it to you, this is also what Chanakya says.





