Folk Beliefs About Predicting Who May Pass Away First in a Marriage

In certain traditions, particularly within Hindu culture, there are folk beliefs about the order in which a husband or wife might die. These ideas are symbolic or spiritual in nature and are not based on scientific or medical evidence. Folklore often emphasizes that the person who passes away peacefully, without suffering or disruption to the family, is considered fortunate.


The Traditional Folk Method

Some stories describe a method to predict which partner might “leave first” using the number of letters in the husband’s and wife’s names. The process typically involves a series of arithmetic steps, including addition, multiplication, doubling, and division.

How It’s Done (According to Folklore)

  1. Count the number of letters in the husband’s and wife’s names.

  2. Add the totals and perform the specified arithmetic operations.

  3. Divide the final number by 3. According to the folklore, the remainder determines which partner is predicted to pass away first.

Example:

  • Husband’s name: Bhagwan → 4 letters

  • Wife’s name: Chand → 2 letters

  • Total letters = 6

  • Using the traditional arithmetic steps, a remainder of 2 indicates, according to the story, that the wife may die first.


Important Note

This method is purely symbolic and cultural. It does not provide any real prediction of life expectancy. Longevity is determined by factors such as health, lifestyle, genetics, and regular medical care.

For couples, the focus should be on healthy living, preventive health checkups, and mutual care, which truly influence how long and well each partner lives. Folklore can be appreciated for its cultural and storytelling value, but it should not be taken as a guide for real-life outcomes.