Sex Getting Boring? Here are 5 Subtle Ways To Tell Your Partner It’s Time To Spice Things Up
Talking to your partner about your unsatisfied sexual life can be a bit intimidating because you don’t know how they will react. Fortunately, putting it out in a friendly way could make it easier. Here, we list five such ways to initiate a conversation with your partner if your sex life is getting boring.
Subtle ways to approach your partner when sex is getting boring
1. Talk to them with an open mind
Having a real conversation is known to do wonders, and when it comes to your sex life, there’s nothing better than talking about it to your partner. Tell them how bored you feel in your sex life and discuss what you both can do mutually to bring back the lost spark in the bedroom.
2. Share your Intimate desires
There is no harm in expressing your sexuality with your partner. Once you know there are no judgments from both sides, letting your partner know about the boring sex life will become much easier, and you can work on it.
3. It’s okay to seek professional help
No one has a perfect sex life. However, you can aim for one by talking about your wants and needs. But if you’re struggling to communicate with your partner, you can consider talking to a couples’ counselor, which will be a safe and secure way to talk through your differences.
4. Try rebuilding your connection with them
Let your partner be well aware of the fact that the lost spark of your relationship needs to be nurtured and improved. Figure out where you have a disconnect from each other and work on that area as a team. This will not only bring back the sexual excitement of your relationship but will also help you bond well, once again.
5. Practise having a conversation before you do
Before talking to your partner about your unsatisfied sex life, try visualizing the conversation to yourself to have an idea of how it may go. This will help you in gathering your thoughts and putting them out in the best way possible.
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