Is it right or wrong to have a relationship before marriage? The answer is hidden in these 6 things

Should one have sex before marriage? Some people will say yes, while others will say no. The truth is that this situation has both its advantages and disadvantages.

Even today people hesitate to talk about physical relationships. This is the reason why most people try to explore it on the internet, by discussing it with friends or on their own level. Compared to earlier, openness about it seems to be increasing now. On one hand, even today sex before marriage is considered wrong. On the other hand, people of the new generation are seen living in live-in relationships and maintaining a relationship like husband and wife. Some do not mind going into physical intimacy before marriage, while some call it a very risky step. Both these situations have their own advantages and disadvantages.

Advantages:

Physical compatibility

Many people believe that sex does not play an important role in a relationship, but the truth is that its role is very important. This intimacy helps in knowing whether there is physical compatibility between two partners or not. Examples of many such married relationships can be seen, which later got into trouble only because the couple could not connect at this level.

Knowing each other's pleasure points

helps you understand each other's pleasure points, which also makes it clear whether you will be able to carry it on after marriage or not. For example, if your partner likes wild sex, but you are not at all comfortable with it, then it will be clear to you beforehand. And instead of enduring it for the rest of your life, you can quit early.

Knowing likes and dislikes

It helps you to know each other's likes and dislikes even before getting into a full relationship. It also helps in removing worries related to physical relationships like body insecurity, hygiene, etc., so that both couples can enjoy intimacy openly after marriage.

Disadvantage:

Fear of being ditched

Not all people in the world need to be good. In such a situation, there is a high risk that someone can use you in the name of having a relationship before marriage. You may not even have an idea of what level he can go. This is the reason why even today couples are asked to stay away from physical intimacy before marriage.

Pregnancy

Do you know that even condoms do not guarantee 100% protection in case of pregnancy? In such a situation, if a girl gets pregnant before marriage, it can prove to be a problem. Especially in a situation where the wedding date has to be postponed due to some reason. You can imagine what can happen in this situation.

Difficulty in moving on

Suppose that both of you have different needs regarding your physical relationship and both of you are not feeling satisfied. Both decide to separate. After this, moving on can prove to be very complicated, especially for girls. Also, the guilt factor that will form in the mind will become an obstacle for them in entering into a new relationship.

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