'I am a 34 year old virgin', the woman told me why she had not had sex till now

34-year-old Lauren Harkins said that she is still a virgin and has not had sex even once. Harkins also told the best thing about staying away from sex.

Lauren Harkins, 34, said she is still a virgin and hasn't had sex even once. Harkins also revealed the best part about abstaining from sex. Lauren, who lives in Portland, Maine, said she doesn't feel ashamed or uncomfortable about being a virgin. Rather, she considers it a positive experience. Lauren says she gets the benefit of being abstinent that other women her age don't get. She said, 'I feel I have saved myself from many problems and complicated situations.' Lauren believes her decision keeps her free from the emotional hurt and "burden" of past failures that many people go through.

Lauren says that she does not want to have sex in a hurry. She said that she is satisfied with her unmarried status and would prefer to remain single rather than go to bed with the wrong man. Lauren says that she prefers a strong emotional and spiritual connection to a physical relationship. According to her, "People underestimate the emotional damage associated with casual sex. I do not see any attraction in this kind of life."

She also said that when the time is right, she would like to experience an intimate relationship, but she has no intention of rushing into it.

Benefits of being single

Lauren emphasized the positives of her single life, saying that it has allowed her to be independent and happy. She says that she never took any step due to any social pressure or "just to do it". According to her, the biggest advantage of being single is that she does not have any kind of emotional "burden". Also, she is living her life on her own terms and enjoying new experiences.

Thoughts on relationships and marriage

Lauren says she never decided she would remain a virgin until the age of 34. But dating has never been a priority in her life. "I knew I wasn't ready for it in my teens and twenties. Now in my thirties, I'm ready for the possibility of not being alone," she said. Although she has no particular interest in marriage and children, she is now a little more open to a long-term partner.

'Everyone moves at their own pace'

Lauren believes that every person has the right to live their life on their own terms. According to her, "Everyone moves at their own pace, and there is nothing wrong with that." Her story gives us the message that it is possible to live a happy and satisfying life on your own terms, going beyond social norms.

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