Karva Chauth is most likely the one celebration that all recently wedded North Indian ladies anticipate. The celebration is generally seen to appeal to God for the long existence of the spouse. It is symbolic in nature, a festival of the establishment of marriage.
The celebration has its underlying foundations in mythology. The puja is set apart by the narrating of Princess Veeravati who gets married to a ruler. On her first Karva Chauth, she chooses to go visit her parents. The meticulousness of fasting throughout the day renders her powerless and she blacks out. Her seven siblings, who cherish her colossally, can not stand to see their sister in this state and deceive her into believing that the moon has risen. Generally as she breaks her quick, she gets word that her husaband, the king is dead. The queen is grief stricken and hurries to her better half’s royal residence. Enroute, she meets Goddess Parvati and Lord Shiva who advise her that it is a compensation and fasting on Karva Chauth will bring back her better half. The story closes cheerfully as the lord picks up consciousness and they live happily ever after.
Celebrated with great fervour in North India, married women start preparing for the festival a few days in advance. Their outfit is picked out, usually in bridal colours of red or pink. They buy new accessories to go with it and get henna put on their hands. In fact, the night before Karva Chauth is when henna artists charge the highest. Rates go as high as Rs.1000 per hand, depending on how intricate a design you want and in how much area on your hand/ arm.
Karwa Chauth Vrat Vidhi
If you’ve seen the film Kabhi Khushi Kabhi Gham, you will relate to the concept of Sargi. A tradition observed largely by Punjabis, it is a sort of food hamper that a mother-in-law lovingly assembles for her daughter-in-law. It includes foods that one is supposed to eat early morning before sunrise on Karva Chauth. It includes nuts, vermicelli kheer and even mathri. One is supposed to enjoy these treats before sunrise and have lots of water as you can not have any food or even water until the moon-rise.
The following sargi tips for women observing Karva Chauth:
1. Include lots of fruits like banana, papaya, pomegranate, berries, apples etc. in the sargi
2. Avoid oily and fried foods like paranthas and pakoras in the morning as these are heavy and may make you dizzy. Eat a heavy meal like multigrain chapatti with vegetables or paneer.
3. Avoid tea or coffee as both of them tend to dehydrate you later in the day. Instead, drink up a glass of fresh juice, milk, buttermilk or a cup of green tea
4. Avoid mithai/ sweets and instead opt for dates, figs or apricots
5. Munch on a few nut like walnuts, almonds and pistachios
Karva Chauth Pooja
The day passes slowly but before you know it, it is evening. The women dress up and gather together to perform the puja. The katha is read aloud as the thali with a sweet, glass of water, a diya and other puja materials is passed around in a circle. All that is left now is to wait for the moon to rise.
Breaking the Fast
Different people break the fast in different ways. The one consistent tradition is to look at your husband through a sieve and then take a sip of water from his hands to break your fast. In recent times, men also choose to fast for their wives, breaking stereotypes. Everybody then enjoys a delicious meal together.
Having fasted all day, it is important that you be careful about how you break your fast. Gargi Sharma shares:
1. Start by drinking one glass of water and then munch on a few nuts. Take a couple of almonds, one or two walnuts and a few sunflower seeds.
2. Your stomach’s acidity levels are probably already high, so avoid drinking tea or coffee. It’ll only make things worse.
3. Avoid oily, spicy and fried foods. Opt for light and easily digestible foods like idli,dosa, uttapam with sambhar/ vegetables, dalia, oat meal chapatti with vegetables or paneer bhurji/steamed rice or pulao with dal, etc.
4. Eat some yogurt.
5. For those with a sweet tooth, you may eat two or three dates, a small piece of dark chocolate or homemade kulfi to finish off your meal.
Here are the mahurat timings to break your fast and perform the puja –
Karwa Chauth Puja: 5:43 pm to 6:59 pm
Moonrise on Karwa Chauth Day: 8:51 pm
Chaturthi Tithi: From 10:47 pm on 18th October to 7:32 pm on 19th October